Originally Posted by
JS
You are pretty proud of working your way through school without taking any handouts. Rightfully so.
Maybe you have stated somewhere ... forgive me if I missed it ... did you and your husband get your education in private schools?
If not, was the cost of tuition a factor?
Have you forgotten that public schools are subsidized by the taxpayers in order to hold tuition down? So attending a public school IS in a sense "taking a handout". A sizable one at that.
I know you pay taxes, as do I, so that makes it just "getting back what you put in", but what about someone who does not take advantage of a public school? They still pay in. Were you going to school on their dime ... "taking a handout from them"? Even many poor people pay taxes, part of which goes to subsidize that public school whether they or their children will ever attend. Must be pretty humbling to think you took a handout from them.
JS