Juli, I agree with you. My kids are 20 years past HS. I would go in on parent teacher conferences and the teachers would say your child is doing very well no problems being surprised I came in. Well, my kids knew I would go in and so they better be better and not screwing around. The teachers told me then so few parents showed up. I think the career path thing is important also. I don't think parents expose their children to career paths enough, thinking they will magically know what's right for them. I gave my kids a book when they were about 13 which explored what areas interested them through a series of questions. I took the test first and found it to be pretty accurate. I then asked friends if they could tag along for a day to see how they liked their career. I lucked out, both chose the paths right for them and I didn't waste any of their college money because they didn't change majors, maybe concentrations, but not fields. I thought my daughter might like teaching math so she volunteered as a tutor. Well, it turned out she wasn't a good tutor for someone that had trouble learning, but as an engineer, part of her job was instructing the installation and troubleshooting of equipment all over the US, but the people she was instructing better have brains and be quick to understand. She has no patience with me as I am not mechanically inclined. LOL. I remember putting those barrels together for the dogs where I was demoted to gopher. Parents need to pay attention and care, show up at extracirricular activities and not just once in awhile. Teachers need a break so year round school is not going to cure the education problems. I still think there are better schools in a more rural setting because the teachers want to be there to teach, because they could get more pay elsewhere. I'm glad my kids grew up in the country.











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