So I tried to take some of your comments and use them. I got her to take a cut broom handle and started with that. When I could get the handle in her mouth I would simply keep my hand under her bottom jaw. We worked on this everyday. Until she would take it herself and hold it with the command. Then I moved to a small bumper. We are at that point now. The other night she held it a little over a minute then when she got antzy I commanded give and took from her. She doesnt fight me with this anymore. No ear pinch or shock collar. I do pet her head and gently talk to her and when she does well I praise her. I have just found with her that (because she has been the most loving dog I have been around) that when I praise her and love her she will perform to task at hand. We have been doing this for a little over two weeks. I still have to force the bumper in her mouth just a little but when she will take it like she does the broom handle we will have improved a whole lot. Thanks for your help.