Sadly...this IS now. It wasn't that long ago when someone would have typed out your title, with the word used for urination, was as vulgar as the "S" word for defacation. But then....this is now. You have come so far, Grasshopper.
Let me suggest to use more 'LOLs' in your posts, as your comrade that continues to shout at us that he's no woman does. That way we will all know your mental state when you issue 'virulent' statements.
That way we can put in the realm of being blessed...like the wall plaque states, "Blessed is he who can laugh at himself, for he shall never cease to be amused."
When the one you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure.
One cannot reason someone out of something they were not reasoned into. - Jonathan Swift