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    /Paul-

    I am very, very upset by your insensitivity and I think Chris should delete this thread. How dare you say something like this:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miriam Wade
    /Paul-

    I am very, very upset by your insensitivity and I think Chris should delete this thread. How dare you say something like this:

    Buy a golden, that'll keep you busy...
    Hurt Not Mad Regards-

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    Shaving ???

    Your just jealous that bandanas don't look good on black dogs.


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    Miriam, what I think Paul meant was that with a Golden, you are more likely to be competing for the entire FT/HT.

    As we know, almost always lose more Labs in every series than Goldens!
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    Paul,
    As a father of three boys 10, 7 and 5yrs they are either given long time outs or a spanking with three hard swats! Two for them one for me (hmm, sounds like an old school dog training truth). Their mother is stricter than I as I chalk a lot up to "boys being boys"! Like the other day my seven year old got the BB gun down from the gun rack and was handling it while I was at work. Well, ol' Mom wanted corpral punishmant but I hid a smile and said I would take care of it later...tonight after a brief but stern BB gun = Dad talk we will be plinking cans.
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    Default Spank um young, and you wont have to later

    I have raised two pretty good boys, and I spanked them a lot when they were little. They joke now (they are 18 and 16) about being spanked with dog leads, plastic coat hangers, wooden spoons, belts, whatever "training aids" I had available. But I never left marks that lasted more than an hour or so, never ever bruised them, and I was alway swift and immediate with my correction. And I started when they were old enough to realize what NO meant, probably less than a year old. By the time they were ten, I didn't need to do it anymore, because they understood what was expected to them. Now, I ground them for the weekend, take their drivers license away, give them nasty farm chores etc. EVEN THE 18 Year old. And he still respects me in spite of it. I hate to compare it to dogs, but if you give the love and quality time they deserve, they respect and EXPECT the corrections when they mess up. My kids aren't perfect, they still do stupid stuff. But they fully expect the "hammer from the old man" when they do it. And they still sit on the couch with me in the evenings (when they are home) and we laugh at "My Name is Earl" together. You have to set the standard early, and stay the course. Just my two cents worth.

    P.S. One of the better punishments I ever applied was forcing my son to ride three hours with me to a hunt test, and, with the exception of when I was running my dogs, I made him sit in the truck and read the bible. The WHOLE WEEKEND. He still talks about that one.
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    What labman 63 said. I'd also ad that if you don't believe in spanking kids, then don't spank yours; but I don't believe it is the governments business as to whether or not you do ao don't believe in spanking. IMHO
    I'd also add in case your interested that I've never found it neccessary to spank my kids, just lucky I guess

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    I can honestly say that I deserved every single whooping I got - and probably a few more!
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    Now, the $64,000 question, what is too far?

    Where do you draw the line? spanking vs abuse

    My intial reaction (without knowing the whole story) with this case is the line got crossed.

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    /Paul,

    I remember the willow tree behind the farm house very well.

    I my opinion spanking isn't about hurting the child physically as it is about hurting the child's pride.

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