Tom,
I am not the one to give advice but I can elaborate on my experiences that seem similar to yours. I have a YLF that is 9 months old and had a huge lack of drive when she was younger in part because of me. I think I reacted as you did and she sensed too much pressure from me to perform. She would go crazy over a live quail or dove but would just out right ignore a bumper. At about 3 1/2 months old I had washed her out but was to attached to let her go even when the breeder agreed to give me a full refund. We continued OB training because she is a house pet but from the age of 4 months to almost 7 months she didn't see one bumper or bird, after she finished teething I decided to give it one last shot with a bumper but this time she didn't feel any pressure and I tried my best to make it fun. Well after about a month of that she was more eager to retrieve than she ever was. Just this passed Sunday we were at a friends place working on some easy water marks and she wasn't even touching the first 10 feet of water from the bank because she was blasting off so hard. I was blessed that we were able to correct MY mistake, this may not be your case but if you leave correction at the way side for the time being and make it a fun game you may just see a different dog arise in front of you.
Just my 2cents, Kevin
I am not the one to give advice but I can elaborate on my experiences that seem similar to yours. I have a YLF that is 9 months old and had a huge lack of drive when she was younger in part because of me. I think I reacted as you did and she sensed too much pressure from me to perform. She would go crazy over a live quail or dove but would just out right ignore a bumper. At about 3 1/2 months old I had washed her out but was to attached to let her go even when the breeder agreed to give me a full refund. We continued OB training because she is a house pet but from the age of 4 months to almost 7 months she didn't see one bumper or bird, after she finished teething I decided to give it one last shot with a bumper but this time she didn't feel any pressure and I tried my best to make it fun. Well after about a month of that she was more eager to retrieve than she ever was. Just this passed Sunday we were at a friends place working on some easy water marks and she wasn't even touching the first 10 feet of water from the bank because she was blasting off so hard. I was blessed that we were able to correct MY mistake, this may not be your case but if you leave correction at the way side for the time being and make it a fun game you may just see a different dog arise in front of you.
Just my 2cents, Kevin