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Last night Paul gathered his friends and family at his bed side and told us his prognosis and that his time here on earth is short. His bravery & strength in such a dire situation was unimaginable. His only concern was for his family and friends and how we felt. Needless to say there wasn't a dry eye in the room. We passed the evening recalling old dogs, hunts and trials and the many, many miles we had logged with Paul. James Roberts was bringing Gypsy, Paul's young dog up to the Hospital today so they could be together.

Today take a moment to think of Paul and shoot him a note to let him know he is in your thoughts and prayers. Also, remember life is fragile and don't take for granted a hunting trip, training day, or just a chance to hang out with your friends and family. Be present in this life.

RD
Knowing Paul to be the stand up guy you describe, I'm not surprised that his foremost concern is for family and friends.

Your last sentences summed it up so well......I have no words other than to say....Amen.
 
I only know Paul through RTF and he has always been one of the good guys and one I have always respected. The words of his friends say everything about him as a man. Prayers for Paul, his family, and his friends.
 
Paul I want you to know that my family and I are continuously praying for you and your family. I will always remember the first time I saw your dogs run, it was the first time I've ever seen a Field Trial dog. You are the reason I enjoy training and running trials. I wish I spent more time in the field with you, every memory and education you gave me is priceless. Having Paul and James in the field together will always be amazing to me. Paul, thank you for all that you have done for me. I want you to know that not only am I a better man for knowing you but each of my dogs are always going to be better trained because of you. Thank you
 
Paul, my friend, I don't know what to say in words of comfort. I just know I'm your friend, and I admire you very much. Prayers are with you and your family. Twister ( last breeding you did with your female and Shaq ) says hi and she loves you. My best wishes and thoughts are with you and your family.
 
Everyone who has come into contact with "Tulsa Slim" is heartbroken to hear this news. He welcomed me and everyone else into the sport and helped many along the way. Prayers sent for you, Paul, and your family. God bless, fp
 
I have never met Paul either, but thoughts and prayers to his friends and family. As has been said, he is handling this with such courage and dignity. I hope it's of some comfort to him and his family that he is so loved and respected.

M
 
I also do not know you,Paul, but wish you and your family peace , wisdom and grace...God Bless you all
 
One of my favorite "Paul" moments was about 8 years ago at the Tulsa trial. His son Brody was about 4 years old at the time. Brody was pretty much a fixture at the trials and would spend most of the days climbing in, out of and on top of Paul's truck. Brody would usually go to the line with Paul when he was running Ramsey. At this particular trial Paul and Ramsey had made it to the water blind in the Am and it was getting late in the day. As Paul was handling Ramsey, Brody decided he wanted to be held by his dad. There was no consoling Brody and only Paul would do. Paul blew a sit whistle, called Brody over to him, picked him up and started handling Ramsey again. The three of them hammered the water blind and went on to the fourth series!!!! I couldn't believe it. The blind was hard enough but here was Paul doing it while holding a 4 year old. What a guy!
 
The last year or two I've had the privilege of being on Facebook with Paul. It was all about those two kids - everything from bow hunting to music recitals to family trips. He has truly given them the precious gift of his time.
 
This note was just posted by Amanda Hale, Paul's niece, about 4 hours ago:
Update on Paul-

Paul is now staying in a beautiful hospice center called Clarehouse. He was not responding at all to the radiation and the cancer is spreading rapidly. We are thankful for each day he continues this gruesome fight against cancer.

Please feel free to send me private messages/emails or comment on here, Gena & I have been reading these to him & they are keeping his spirits up & making him smile.

We are throwing Paul a pizza party on Sunday for his 56th birthday this Sunday. Everyone is welcome, just let me or Gena know if you would like to attend.

If any one missed the opportunity to donate to Paul's fund, here's the link:

http://www.gofundme.com/paulrainboltfund
 
I sent Paul a private message on Facebook last nite. I urge everyone who knows him to reach out to him in this difficult time. It will keep his spirits up knowing many have him in their thoughts.
 
My wife works at a local hospital as an oncology nurse and remembers Paul being on her floor. It's very difficult for all families and patients, but my wife said he was always surrounded by a strong family. The Clarehouse is an excellent facility and will be as comfortable as possible.
 
Paul turns 56 today. Please send him a birthday message during this difficult time.
 
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