Poor Darren. Some disagree with him and it hurts

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Dude you are so full of yourself. This is a retriever training forum not a PetSmart training forum and like it or not training retrievers is different than teaching a PetSmart class. All anyone has done here is disagree with you when you make a huge issue out of putting a collar on a dog or teaching a dog to sit. Why are you getting so upset about this? Man pretty simple stuff but evidently it's something that requires a PHD in dog psychology. Again making a mountain out of a mole hill.
Pretty simple Steve - because there's more to training a dog than the "just follow the program" "I don't see the issue" "You didn't do your basics thoroughly enough" answers that are often given to people struggling with mundane tasks. I think you guys all know that but for whatever reason if my advice doesn't align with a program I'm wrong? I don't get it. Really, I keep coming back because I don't get why anyone would argue with a handful of kibble as an aid in putting a collar on a dog. It's pretty simple stuff really.
I'm not hurt by any of the comments you guys make about me personally. I study these things in minute detail so I can teach people who know literally nothing about a dog how to train one. I guess that makes me detail oriented and thorough? I don't know what the problem is. Trust me, it's not that I'm full of myself. I am constantly looking for mentors on certain things that I need help with. Putting a collar on a dog or sitting with handler in motion aren't on that list but there is plenty of stuff I need more experience/help with. In fact, if I were going to get into advanced retriever work I would need help with that. But we're not talking about advanced retriever work when we argue. We're talking about basic obedience, which is where I live 60 hours a week or so.
I keep telling myself you guys just don't see what I see on a regular basis if you're training half decently bred retrievers for field work. I don't quite know how to get that across to folks so they can understand WHY I view things the way I do and why any advice I give is detail oriented and sometimes technical.
Great example - I walk into a home with a single mom of two kids under 10 who has an American Bulldog puppy 12 weeks old. Puppy barks and backs away from me. When I turn my back he begins to advance. This is a typical reaction from a fearful dog. So, if you have every played with an American Bulldog you know they can be 60 lb of explosive power without much of a warning. They aren't always very clear headed and can do a lot of damage with a single bite. There I am with a fearful 12 week old puppy and a woman who loves him and has no clue she's sitting on a potential powder keg with two small kids running around. At that point, if I want to save the kids from getting bitten (or worse) and keep the dog alive, I had better have studied and know what the heck I'm doing. There's a lot more to raising this puppy than your normal happy go lucky retriever. Socialization is different and handling is very different. The need for lots and lots of positive experiences is obvious but it is much more pronounced than with a clear headed, emotionally stable dog. This lady has her work cut out for her and it's up to me to guide her properly. It's not simple by any stretch of the imagination. Pup is doing great after a couple of weeks but we will see what happens when he hits puberty. Hopefully the guidance I give will be technically sound, well thought out and thoroughly explained, so that she has a chance of succeeding.
Another great example is actually a 2 year old CLM. Very fearful dog and aggressive with strangers. Bit a buddy of mine from retriever club twice while he was busy "exerting his dominance" over the dog. Soft hearted owners with no clue at all how to work with a dog. When I walked in they were having a complete conversation in human terms with him about me being a friend.
This is the stuff I deal with every day. This is why I have studied and thought through these issues. This is why I have dog friendly and people friendly options available for solving problems.
I can't tell the average pet owner "you didn't teach him to sit right, here's a heeling stick... now, if he gives you any crap putting his collar on you say "sit" and slap him in the ass with it." People won't follow through on that instruction, period, end of story. It's my guess that some of the posters here who ask such basic questions fall into the same camp and benefit from some of these "dog friendly" approaches.
It would be nice though, if I could post them without having to take a lot of crap from you guys. Really, what have I ever posted that was harmful to a dog or owner?